My Thoughts

The more things change the more they stay the same. Recently my baby sister’s boyfriend, at my request, fixed me up with a co-worker of his. I asked all the pertinent questions: Is he single? Does he have any kid, if so how many? Does he live near me? Yada, yada. So dude calls me up we make arrangements for the next day to meet in person. He was supposed to call to setup the time. Well the call never came that day. Yes, I know I could have called but I didn’t want to start things out like that, I feel if you say you are going to do something then do it. So following day after we were supposed to meet dude calls and asks what happened. He said he was going to call me and setup a time, since he didn’t call I made other plans. Well make arrangements to meet the following Saturday. Again dude doesn’t call. So I just write him off.
Well about a week or two ago I’m at karaoke cheering and drinking with friends, when I get this phone call. I didn’t recognize the number so I answered it. It from some chick that says she is dude’s wife. Yes the dude my sister’s boyfriend set me up with. I’m floored. She proceeds to tell me how she was going through his phone and wanted to know who this number belonged to (women still do that?). I’m like look I don’t know your husband as a matter of fact I have never even met your husband. (Dumb ass broad) She’s like “Oh.” I hang up. Shaking my head. Ladies if you got go through your man’s phone to find out if he’s cheating then you got problems and need some help. Nine times out of ten if you suspect he’s cheating then he probably is. In the words of Tupac only slightly modified “if it’s your man who’s sweating me then its your man you check” why call the woman she may not even know you exist, and she because you make yourself known to her doesn’t change the fact that your man is a cheater.